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M\u0103 \u00eentreb uneori dac\u0103 e bine sau r\u0103u s\u0103-i spun copilului c\u00e2nd nu se descurc\u0103 la ceva, \u0219i dac\u0103 ar trebui, poate, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i canalizeze eforturile c\u0103tre alte lucruri.<\/p>\n

Am mai zis. Mie \u00een copil\u0103rie mi-a pl\u0103cut folbalu’ . Ce p\u0103cat c\u0103 eram fix cel mai prost din curtea \u0219colii la treaba asta, plm tocilarul planetei, trup \u0219i suflet, nu puteam lovi mingea aia corect nici dac\u0103 era p\u0103trat\u0103. Nu \u00een\u021belegeam de ce, pentru c\u0103 puteam pricepe orice strategie, orice abordare , orice procedur\u0103 de mini m dou\u0103 ori mai repede dec\u00e2t restul copiilor care se comportau ca \u0219i cum aveau jum\u0103tate de creier lips\u0103 dar treceau pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine cu mingea jongl\u00e2nd pe genunchi, \u00een timp ce mie mi se \u00eennodau \u0219ireturile doar dac\u0103 mergeam.<\/p>\n

La fel \u0219i la desen. Cum zice unul dintre copii: Creierul meu \u00ee\u0219i imagineaz\u0103 lucruri at\u00e2t de frumoase, dar m\u00e2na deseneaz\u0103 altceva. A\u0219a \u0219i eu, \u00eemi imaginam forme \u0219i grafice nemaiv\u0103zute.<\/p>\n

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Dar din creion ie\u0219eau tot oameni din be\u021be. \u0218i \u0103ia descul\u021bi.<\/p>\n

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\u0218i de c\u00e2ntat cu gura tot a\u0219a. Spaima satelor vecine. M\u0103 \u0219i obligau s\u0103 c\u00e2nt la serb\u0103ri. Eu uram asta, c\u0103 voce nu am, dar urechi da, chiar muzicale. Pot s\u0103 c\u00e2nt dup\u0103 ureche la clape, la muzicu\u021b\u0103 , la fluier , d-\u0103stea . Cu degetele-s bun . La V\u00e2lcea to\u021bi sunt piani\u0219ti de mici.<\/p>\n

A\u0219a \u0219i copilul cel mare. C\u00e2nd c\u00e2nt\u0103 tre’ s\u0103 chem zugravul. Dac\u0103-s \u021bevile la canalizare \u00eenfundate pot s-o rog s\u0103 fac\u0103 un “solo”. Partea proast\u0103 e c\u0103 \u00eei place. Ca mie fotbalul. \u00cen mod normal a\u0219 \u00eencuraja-o s\u0103 continue s\u0103 exerseze, dar ne face r\u0103u, lol.<\/p>\n

Cu desenul e ok. Go-on, go-on. In cele din urm\u0103 eu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 desenez tehnic, c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t. Dac\u0103 am referin\u021be s\u0103 le m\u0103sor \u0219i trag linii drepte sau folosesc compas , sau fotoshop sunt \u0219efu’ la desen \u0219i la falsuri; pardon, reproduceri dup\u0103 model. La \u0103stea bun, doar m\u00e2inile nu m\u0103 ajut\u0103.<\/p>\n

Eh, bine c\u0103 \u00een\u021belege matematic\u0103 \u0219i programare \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i poate exprima cumva creativitatea. Altfel e r\u0103u s\u0103 ai idei \u0219i s\u0103 nu po\u021bi s\u0103 le scuipi afar\u0103 cumva.<\/p>\n

Dar cel\u0103lalt copil…<\/p>\n

Cel\u0103lalt copil nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 are nevoie de matematic\u0103. Nici cu cine seam\u0103n\u0103.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd pictezi a\u0219a la doi ani.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 vi se pare amuzant de ur\u00e2t, merge\u021bi s\u0103 vede\u021bi expozi\u021bia de art\u0103 abstract\u0103 de la muzeul din Vatican . Aia zici c\u0103-i f\u0103cut\u0103 de bolnavi de Down, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 asta. Eu la doi ani pictam pere\u021bii cu lapte din biberon, sau ceva.<\/p>\n

\u0218i cam a\u0219a la 3 ani. Mie nu \u00eemi ies culorile pe foaie nici acum.<\/p>\n

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Iar \u0103sta e de ieri .<\/p>\n

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Problema e c\u0103 eu nu pot s\u0103 ajut. Iar copiii limitele creativit\u0103\u021bii lor. Dac\u0103 nu \u00eei aju\u021bi trebuie s\u0103 inventeze singuri roata. Uneori e de bine. Alteori e de pierdere de timp. Au timp. Dar parc\u0103 parc\u0103 ceva nu pu\u0219c\u0103 bine. Pe cel\u0103lalt copil, da, pot. Matematic\u0103, programare , robotic\u0103, \u0219tiin\u021be. \u0102la e t\u0103r\u00e2mul meu \u0219i pot s\u0103 \u00eei dau un br\u00e2nci. Bine m\u0103car c\u0103 \u00eei place. Dac\u0103 pe partea de control fin la mu\u0219chi nu se mi\u0219c\u0103 nimic corect, nu prea are de ales.<\/p>\n

Dar dac\u0103 e vorba de desen, mai degrab\u0103 a\u0219 putea s\u0103 predau fotbal, m\u0103car acolo \u0219tiu strategia , chit c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eempiedic.<\/p>\n

Tot ce pot s\u0103 fac e s\u0103 \u00eenghit in sec c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 zugr\u0103vesc . Din nou.<\/p>\n

Eu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b treaba mea cu minim ajutor. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 a fost bine, dac\u0103 merge mereu a\u0219a, sau dac\u0103 nu-s oportunit\u0103\u021bi pierdute.<\/p>\n

Cum \u00eel \u00eenve\u021bi pe un copil s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva mai bine c\u00e2nd tu e\u0219ti praf prin compara\u021bie ?<\/p>\n

Cum a\u0219 putea s\u0103 \u00eei explic cum se combin\u0103 culorile, dac\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd amestec acuarelele Mordorul mi se scurge de sub pensul\u0103?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u0103 \u00eentreb uneori dac\u0103 e bine sau r\u0103u s\u0103-i spun copilului c\u00e2nd nu se descurc\u0103 la ceva, \u0219i dac\u0103 ar trebui, poate, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i canalizeze…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10719,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[500,1],"tags":[2352,906,2353,2351],"class_list":["post-10720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self","category-uncategorized","tag-ajuti-copii","tag-arta","tag-picturi-abstracte","tag-talent-la-desen"],"views":2859,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/fd8d4c2d-c21f-472b-a711-060863a50e2a-1.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-2MU","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10720"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10720\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}