{"id":12791,"date":"2018-08-15T05:00:51","date_gmt":"2018-08-15T03:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=12791"},"modified":"2018-08-15T05:00:51","modified_gmt":"2018-08-15T03:00:51","slug":"notes-to-self-revolutia-copiilor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=12791","title":{"rendered":"Notes to self: Revolu\u021bia copiilor"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lucrurile nu au \u00eenceput acum dou\u0103 seri c\u00e2nd copilul cel mic mi-a ars o coada de m\u0103tur\u0103 (cred) peste ochi, de am avut noroc c\u0103 m-au salvat ochelarii; dar nu s-au salvat pe ei.<\/p>\n

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Nu. Am zis c\u0103 dac\u0103 am primit avertismente c\u0103copilu’ nu se ap\u0103r\u0103, s\u0103 facem ceva pe tem\u0103, privind libertate \u0219i deprindere.<\/p>\n

Zicea c\u0103 se joac\u0103, dar s-a prins repede c\u0103 nu-i a bun\u0103 c\u00e2nd mi-a s\u0103rit lentila din ram\u0103 \u0219i n-am mai v\u0103zut-o. Nu c\u0103 de la lovitur\u0103, c\u0103 sunt buni ochelarii la treburi din astea \u0219i eu v\u0103d \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103, dar \u0219i-a \u0219ters semn\u0103tura energetic\u0103 rapid din zon\u0103.<\/p>\n

Nici nu m-am o\u021b\u0103r\u00e2t prea tare, nu mai tare dec\u00e2t c\u00e2nd, peste 10 minute, i-a despicat pielea de pe bra\u021b celuilalt copil, cu care se juca cu aceea\u0219i coad\u0103 de m\u0103tur\u0103 din tabl\u0103 de-a cavalerii medievali cu asemenea s\u0103bii \u0219i scuturi din capace de cazane. Dac\u0103 nu \u021bii scutul bine p\u0103\u021b\u0103\u0219ti.<\/p>\n

-M\u0103i, de ce nu te-ai oprit c\u00e2nd \u021bi-a spus s\u0103 te opre\u0219ti?<\/p>\n

-Ca m\u0103 lovea ea \u0219i nu \u00eemi place s\u0103 m\u0103 doar\u0103.<\/p>\n

Sper doar s\u0103 fac\u0103 la fel cu str\u0103ini, ca s\u0103 nu mai avem probleme din astea de gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Am reparat bete\u0219ugul copilului r\u0103nit \u00een lupt\u0103, a stat cu bra\u021bul bandajat c\u00e2teva zile, n-a comentat prea tare, a\u0219a e in r\u0103zboi .<\/p>\n

Copilul mic \u00een\u021belege, totu\u0219i. C\u00e2nd \u00eei spui s\u0103 nu, las\u0103 bot, se sup\u0103r\u0103, dac\u0103 nu \u00eei convine pl\u00e2nge, pe urm\u0103 c\u00e2nt\u0103 c\u0103 ce r\u0103u e c\u0103 nu o las\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103…, iar pe urm\u0103 \u00eei trece.<\/p>\n

Copilul cel mare e ca mine pe vremea aia. Aude doar dac\u0103 vrea, \u00een\u021belege c\u00e2nd aude \u0219i ignora cu des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219ire, iar dac\u0103 nu \u00eei e permis s\u0103 ignore, nu po\u021bi s\u0103 ignori nici tu. Te sap\u0103 pe toate p\u0103r\u021bile p\u00e2n\u0103 ob\u021bine ce vrea, sau pierde iremediabil orice \u0219ans\u0103 de a ob\u021bine ce vrea. Nu exist\u0103 compromisuri, nu exist\u0103 negociere, nu exist\u0103 meciuri rejucate, nu exist\u0103 meci cedat la puncte.<\/p>\n

It’s over when it’s over <\/i>\u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 \u0103la care are mai pu\u021bini mor\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Nu \u0219tie s\u0103 piard\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd o face toate cor\u0103biile sunt sub ap\u0103, zici c\u0103 se joac\u0103 de-a submarinele. Mhh, tre’ s\u0103 lucr\u0103m la asta. Suntem doi oameni care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 piard\u0103 \u0219i se privesc \u00een ochi, c\u0103ut\u00e2ndu-\u0219i unul altuia sl\u0103biciunile.<\/p>\n

La fel face cu tot ce-i in jur, un copil tiran, demn\u0103 s\u0103 mo\u0219teneasc\u0103 imperiul \u00eenc\u0103 neconstruit al altui fost tiran.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 eram un dictator a\u0219 fi avut cel pu\u021bin un urma\u0219 demn.<\/p>\n

Orice libertate c\u00e2\u0219tigat\u0103 i se pare drept, uit\u0103 c\u0103 toate-s revocabile c\u00e2nd tr\u0103ie\u0219ti sub suzeranitatea p\u0103rin\u021bilor .<\/p>\n

\u0218i orice inch de p\u0103m\u00e2nt pierdut atrage cu sine renegarea statutului de vasal, bereta kaki pe-o ureche \u0219i cuiul de la grenad\u0103 smuls cu din\u021bii.<\/p>\n

Locul de joac\u0103 cu leagane \u0219i gazonul din jur men\u021binute curate \u0219i tunse cu munca so\u021biei se transform\u0103 \u00een c\u00e2mpul de b\u0103t\u0103lie \u0219i t\u0103r\u00e2mul celor ale\u0219i s\u0103 se joace, care pot fi 2-3 sau tot satul de copii, ignor\u00e2nd totu\u0219i c\u0103 noi nu suntem prim\u0103ria comunei, parcul de joac\u0103 nu e public \u0219i ce-i destul e destul.<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 creasc\u0103 ferici\u021bi, cic\u0103. Ca s\u0103 se bucure de copil\u0103rie, cic\u0103. Ca s\u0103 cear\u0103 tot mai mult \u0219i mai mult, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd prea multe reguli vor fi fost ignorate, libert\u0103\u021bile se contract\u0103 \u0219i, cu toate pierderile colaterale, trebuie s\u0103 ne a\u0219ez\u0103m fiecare pe pozi\u021biile pe care avem acoperire.<\/p>\n

Parcul se depopuleaz\u0103 \u0219i din iarba verde se ridic\u0103 doar pustiul \u0219i lini\u0219tea aia amar\u0103, care nu mul\u021bume\u0219te pe nimeni.<\/p>\n

Ca in orice revolu\u021bie, nimeni nu c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103. Toat\u0103 lumea pierde, unii mai mult al\u021bii mai pu\u021bin, important\u0103 e restabilirea echilibrului, a unui raport aproape de echitabil \u0219i limitarea evolu\u021biei viciate pe o perioad\u0103 oarecare, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103torul reset.<\/p>\n

A\u0219a func\u021bioneaz\u0103 lumea, a\u0219a func\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u0219i familiile cu copii.<\/p>\n

Organizarea materiei, implicit reducerea entropiei, se face cu efort, cu costuri, cu pierderea unor grade de libertate. E \u00eempotriva intui\u021biei, e \u00eempotriva spiritului \u0219i a creativit\u0103\u021bii, dar face parte din ceea ce \u021bine universul s\u0103 nu se pr\u0103bu\u0219easc\u0103 .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lucrurile nu au \u00eenceput acum dou\u0103 seri c\u00e2nd copilul cel mic mi-a ars o coada de m\u0103tur\u0103 (cred) peste ochi, de am avut noroc c\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12789,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1178,571,500],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12791","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-la-tara","category-life-log","category-self"],"views":1379,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/IMG_20180814_101508982_LL-01.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-3kj","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12791","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12791"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12791\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12789"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12791"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12791"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12791"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}