{"id":18671,"date":"2020-11-15T11:11:00","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T11:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=18671"},"modified":"2020-11-14T11:37:26","modified_gmt":"2020-11-14T11:37:26","slug":"un-ochi-pentru-educatie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=18671","title":{"rendered":"Un ochi pentru educa\u021bie"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u0103 de ce m\u0103 chinui io s\u0103 stau acili\u0219ea p\u0103 Reading, unde sunt casele scumpe (suprapre\u021b, nu a\u0219a) \u0219i nu neaparat cele mai mi\u0219to. Sunt zone \u00een UK unde po\u021bi avea o via\u021b\u0103 mai ieftin\u0103, un cost de acces ( chirie sau pre\u021bul casei SENSIBIL mai mic dec\u00e2t aici). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe scurt, cu banii pe care \u00eei de\u021binem am putea s\u0103 ne cump\u0103r\u0103m case cash prin alte zone \u0219i nu vorbesc neap\u0103rat de vreun sat uitat de lume, sau vreun ora\u0219 postindustrial, c\u0103 trebuie c\u0103 au \u0219i \u0103\u0219tia Caracalele lor, dar la alt nivel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exemple absolut la \u00eent\u00e2mplare (nu caut sa merg niciunde): Birmingham<\/a>, Manchester<\/a>, Cardiff<\/a>, Glasgow,<\/a> Edinburgh<\/a>, Bristol<\/a>, MK<\/a>, Southampton<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singurele locuri notabile ( exista o gramada de exceptii minore, dar lipsite de importan\u021b\u0103 ( pentru mine) unde nu \u00eemi permit cump\u0103ra ( cu banii jos) sunt Oxford, Cambridge \u0219i Londra. Oxford nu prea e de nasul meu, nici Cambridge, dar nici nu-i preferabil logistic, iar Londra nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 locuiesc acolo nicicum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar e o mica problemic\u0103, aia cu scopul, adic\u0103 ce caut io printre str\u0103inii \u0103\u0219tia r\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai primesc mesaje din astea pe mail. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Toat\u0103 lumea cu care vorbesc \u00eemi spune superior: b\u0103, da’ tu crezi c\u0103 nu mai sunt alte \u0219coli bune \u00een toat\u0103 Anglia ( + Sco\u021bia \u0219i \u021aara Galilor) ? \u00cen alte ora\u0219e nu mai g\u0103se\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ba, sunt unele \u0218I MAI BUNE. Nu fantastic de multe, dar sunt, general vorbind, oarecum destule mai bune sau la fel de bune. Dar dup\u0103 cum \u0219tim de la Voltaire \u201d le mieux est l’ennemi du bien<\/em>\u201d , \u00een sensul c\u0103 sunt ni\u0219te eforturi necesare la fiecare tranzi\u021bie dintr-un loc \u00een altul, iar c\u00e2t timp ele nu-s necesare logistic, sau din punct de vedere material ( adic\u0103 nu mai am job, mor de foame, astea) nu prea are sens pentru mine s\u0103 suport\u0103m costul \u0103sta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are mai mult sens \u00een momentul de fa\u021b\u0103 ca dac\u0103 trebuie s-o roim d-aici, s\u0103 facem transferul \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103 direct, dar cum se vede din poza de mai sus, momentan nu e cazul, aia e suport alte costuri \u0219i lucrez cu posibilit\u0103\u021bile materiale curente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Interesant totu\u0219i ( iar aici m\u0103 bat singur pe burt\u0103 \u0219i fac o lab\u0103 \u00een public) c\u0103 am nimerit OK din prima aruncare de b\u0103\u021b, c\u0103 altfel eu eram preg\u0103tit s\u0103 nu ias\u0103 chiar bine \u0219i s\u0103 mai fac o \u00eencercare, dou\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 decideam c\u0103 nu e bun\u0103 \u021bara \u0219i trebuie s-o schimb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am un ochi \u0219i sim\u021bul mirosului pentru chestiile astea, dar \u0219i oarece bulan nativ. \u0218i v\u0103d c\u0103 cel pu\u021bin nasul s-a transmis mai departe la copil. \u00cen general, p\u0103rin\u021bii au ei p\u0103reri cu privire la \u0219coala la care ar trebui s\u0103 mearg\u0103 copilul lor. \u0218i eu am, c\u0103 n-am ajuns \u00een \u021bara asta cu copilul tr\u0103g\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de \u0219ireturi, dac\u0103 era dup\u0103 copii, spa\u021biul posibilit\u0103\u021bilor se \u00eentindea acolo, \u00een jurul casei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i asta cred c\u0103 \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 fie chintesen\u021ba p\u0103rintelui. C\u00e2nd copilul ( orice om face asta) d\u0103 cu nasul \u00een cutia lui de confort, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd op\u021biuni, e util s\u0103-i l\u0103rge\u0219ti un pic viziunea, dac\u0103 po\u021bi, mai de bun\u0103 voie, mai de nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cens\u0103 ajuns \u00een noul spa\u021biu, dup\u0103 ce n-am a\u0219ezat \u00een func\u021bie de posibilit\u0103\u021bi, copilul de unul singur a fost pe la diferite \u0219coli \u0219i dup\u0103 ce a dat examene pe unde aveam eu \u00een cap ( deja avea format\u0103 ideea personal\u0103), a zis clar – eu vreau AICI<\/strong>. Pe criterii, trebuie s\u0103 recunosc, mai obiective \u0219i mai responsabile dec\u00e2t cele pe care mi-am ales eu \u0219colile – da, \u0219i tata mi-a permis \u0219i m-a sus\u021binut s\u0103 fac asta pe m\u0103sura posibilit\u0103\u021bilor lui, normal; treaba asta ruleaz\u0103 \u00een familie de vreo 2 genera\u021bii . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, c\u00e2t\u0103 vreme cifrele vorbe\u0219te \u0219i p\u0103rerea nu se schimb\u0103, nu-mi r\u0103m\u00e2ne dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fac tot posibilul s\u0103 m\u0103 aliniez, pentru c\u0103 dou\u0103 chestii:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Copiii ( \u0219tiu nu ne vine s\u0103 le acord\u0103m credit, c\u0103 destul de des sunt idio\u021bi, cam ca noi) percep mai bine unele chestii cu privire la necesit\u0103\u021bile lor de educa\u021bie \u0219i unde vor s\u0103 fie. UNELE. Dac\u0103 li se permite libertatea de decizie \u0219i de a-\u0219i proiecta viitorul. <\/li>
  2. Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 n-or s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103, c\u0103 n-or s-o dea \u00een bar\u0103, dar ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu mai mult\u0103 responsabilitate c\u00e2nd e decizia lor. Io n-am putut niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-i zic lu’ tata, c\u00e2nd mi-a fost greu: B\u0103, m-ai trimis aici \u00eempotriva voin\u021bei mele, iar acum sunt un lache flau\u0219at \u0219i nu m\u0103 descurc. Nu. Am fost\u00eentrebat unde vreau s\u0103 merg, dup\u0103 care, c\u00e2nd nu m-am descurcat , ai mei mi-au sugerat s\u0103 fac ni\u0219te eforturi s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic la nivelul a\u0219tept\u0103rilor, sau m\u0103car s\u0103 termin ceea ce m-am angajat, de\u0219i am avut tentativa de a renun\u021ba, de mai multe ori. Nu zic c\u0103 a fost bine sau r\u0103u, ca decizie de via\u021b\u0103, dar \u00een privin\u021ba perseveren\u021bei \u00een urm\u0103rirea unui scop ( chiar dac\u0103 prost) tot a ajutat<\/li>
  3. A\u0219a v\u0103d pe pielea lor c\u00e2nd deciziile lor sunt bune sau nu. Unele le pot schimba altele nu, dar e bine s\u0103 vezi destul de t\u00e2n\u0103r c\u0103 exist\u0103 consecin\u021be ale deciziilor pe care le iei cu privire la via\u021ba ta \u0219i ai o mai bun\u0103 \u00een\u021belegere, copil fiind, pentru cazul c\u00e2nd adul\u021bii \u00ee\u021bi iau volanul din m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i iau ei decizii. <\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    C\u0103 de ce m\u0103 chinui io s\u0103 stau acili\u0219ea p\u0103 Reading, unde sunt casele scumpe (suprapre\u021b, nu a\u0219a) \u0219i nu neaparat cele mai mi\u0219to. Sunt…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18673,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1207,1594],"tags":[4150,3118],"class_list":["post-18671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cucultura","category-uk","tag-educatia","tag-viata-in-uk-2"],"views":1906,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/back_in_my_day_radio.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-4R9","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18671"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18671\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18702,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18671\/revisions\/18702"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18673"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}