{"id":19158,"date":"2021-02-11T12:42:29","date_gmt":"2021-02-11T12:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19158"},"modified":"2021-02-11T12:45:45","modified_gmt":"2021-02-11T12:45:45","slug":"sunt-un-om-rau-si-ma-bucur-de-asta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19158","title":{"rendered":"Sunt un om r\u0103u \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig bani din asta"},"content":{"rendered":"
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La \u00eenceputul vie\u021bii mele de muncitor pe planta\u021bii se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpla s\u0103-mi iau c\u00e2te o lopat\u0103 \u00een muie \u0219i c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eentrebam – b\u0103, ce-au \u0103\u0219tia cu mine? eram l\u0103sat s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 nu e nimic personal, a\u0219a se face profesional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bine\u00een\u021beles c\u0103 de cele mai multe ori erau (\u0219i) aspecte personale, dar unele aveau leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu profesia, gen fie eram eu insuportabil ( destul de plauzibil, c\u0103 \u0219tiu ce om sunt) \u0219i era o reac\u021bie la asta, fie omul pur \u0219i simplu f\u0103cea puncte pentru promovare cu orice pre\u021b, fie n-avea poft\u0103 s\u0103-mi fac\u0103 mie loc pe undeva . Fie \u201dd\u0103-te \u00een pula mea, c\u0103 nu sunt m\u0103-ta s\u0103 te \u021bin de m\u00e2n\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar am \u00een\u021beles treaba asta cu \u201dnu-i nimic personal, s\u0103 fim profesioni\u0219ti, ce dracu’\u201d \u00een adev\u0103rata cheie \u00een care trebuie s\u0103 interpretezi situa\u021bia : suntem colegi \u00een acte, dar fiecare luam salariu separat, m\u0103 doare \u00een pul\u0103 de tine tot ce fac e pentru mine, am propria agend\u0103, \u201dprofesional\u201d e ca eu s\u0103 fac tot ce pot s\u0103 avansez p-aici \u0219i s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig c\u00e2t mai mul\u021bi bani. Perfect \u0219i am devenit maestru la dat cu lopata \u00een muie, deflectat lope\u021bi \u0219i lips\u0103 de empatie \u0219i grij\u0103 pentru fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103rile personale ale altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un lucru pe care l-am avut tot timpul diferit fa\u021b\u0103 de lumea \u00een general este totu\u0219i deschiderea spre a \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba \u0219i pe al\u021bii. Nu am \u00een niciun moment frica c\u0103 \u201dvai, dac\u0103 \u00eel \u00eenv\u0103\u021b pe \u0103sta chestiunea asta o s\u0103 \u00eemi ia jobul\u201d – de fapt, din asta a\u0219 vrea sa tr\u0103iesc, un fel de profesor, dar nu la \u0219coal\u0103, c\u0103 mor s\u0103rac, ci la locuri de munc\u0103, c\u0103 asta e consultan\u021ba – uite, b\u0103 pul\u0103 cum se face, at\u00e2ta te cost\u0103, acuma d\u0103-mi banii \u0219i ia \u0219i munce\u0219te, c\u0103 doar nu vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 murd\u0103resc eu pe m\u00e2ini. #cum\u00e2inilecurate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eh, exist\u0103 binein\u021beles, o diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 c\u00e2nd dorm \u0219i diminea\u021ba c\u00e2nd m\u0103 trezesc, dar m\u0103car am un ideal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i dup\u0103 fiecare proiect, \u00een fiecare proiect, eu vreau, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eempinga cineva de la spate, s\u0103 \u00eempart ce \u0219tiu \u0219i cu restul, de fapt, s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 numai ei, din partea mea, pe mine doar s\u0103 m\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 decid ei c\u0103 nu mai e nevoie de mine pe acolo. Asta a fost introducerea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe proiectul \u0103sta, care ruleaz\u0103 de mai bine de trei ani, am tot vrut eu s\u0103-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b pe al\u021bii, eu am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u0219i de la ei \u0219i de la al\u021bii, dar nu prea am avut pe cine, cu excep\u021bia unui coleg , care-i din ceva material bun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acuma, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 lucrezi cu mine, nu-i neap\u0103rat comod, c\u0103 am zis c\u0103 nu-s empatic \u0219i mai fut lope\u021bi peste bot – nimic personal, hehe. Chiar nu-i nimic personal, se mai trezesc \u0219i oameni apropia\u021bi din familie cu c\u00e2te-o lopat\u0103 \u00een bot. E gre\u0219it, dar a\u0219a-s eu \u0219i e deforma\u021bie profesional\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Profesional, pot simula empatia doar dac\u0103-s pl\u0103tit s-o fac, sau depind banii mei de asta. Gratis nu \u0219i nu e inclu\u0103 \u00een pre\u021b, e add-on separat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i i-am explicat o dat\u0103 unui tip cum se fac ni\u0219te chestii. Dup\u0103 care m-a \u00eentrebat o \u0219ef\u0103 dac\u0103 cred c\u0103 e destul de capabil s\u0103 fac\u0103 el treaba aia, dup\u0103 ce o s\u0103-i mai fac\u0103 cineva un training. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am zis c\u0103 da, cum nu. N-am eu \u00eencredere \u00een colegii mei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe urm\u0103 m-au b\u00e2ntuit unii c\u0103 nu le merge nu \u0219tiu ce-ul \u0103la \u0219i v\u0103z\u00e2nd c\u0103 Pulic\u0103 al meu a intrat pe acolo cu cizmele \u0219i cu durere \u00een pul\u0103, am sim\u021bit nevoia s\u0103-i fut o lopat\u0103 \u00een muie, profesional desigur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar zic c\u0103, hai, b\u0103 – c\u0103 e \u00eencep\u0103tor ( doar 10 ani de experien\u021b\u0103, a\u0219a se laud\u0103), c\u0103 poate nu l-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, c\u0103 io i-am spus \u00een grab\u0103, hai s\u0103-i \u00eentreb dac\u0103 i-au f\u0103cut training. \u0218i le-am r\u0103spuns \u0219efilor la mailul \u00een care m\u0103 \u00eentrebau dac\u0103 e OK s\u0103 fac\u0103 el aia, \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-i dac\u0103 i-au f\u0103cut training, c\u0103 uite, a f\u0103cut ni\u0219te modific\u0103ri \u0219i nu nu-s chiar OK, c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 fac\u0103 A,B,C,D. \u0219i c\u0103 dac\u0103 e nevoie \u00eei fac eu training. \u0218i zic \u00een mintea mea c\u0103, b\u0103, dac\u0103 vorbesc cu \u0219efii lui ( \u0219i ai mei) hai s\u0103-l pun \u0219i pe el \u00een mail, s\u0103 nu zic\u0103 c\u0103-l b\u00e2rfesc, c\u0103 poate are ceva de spus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sent<\/em><\/strong> \u0219i mi-am v\u0103zut de treab\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 am observat c\u0103 s-a rupt cerul. A venit \u0219efa lui c\u0103 vai, c\u0103 n-a \u0219tiut s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta, c\u0103 e grav. Nu, doamn\u0103, nu e, ( \u00een mintea mea: e doar prost, dar nu grav) dar dac\u0103 nu \u0219tie \u00eei explic eu, pe mine m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 dac\u0103 i-a\u021bi f\u0103cut training, c\u0103 nu pare. C\u0103 i-a f\u0103cut. OK, \u00eei mai explic eu. Zic, pula mea, rezolvat, \u00eemi v\u0103d de treab\u0103 \u00een continuare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i vine Pulic\u0103 cu o falc\u0103 \u00een cer \u0219i una \u00een pula mea, c\u0103 vai, c\u0103 de ce am dat mail cu \u0219efii \u00een CC, c\u0103 nu a\u0219a se face, c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103-i spun lui, c\u0103 suntem colegi , c\u0103 pula mea, c\u0103 tehnic ce-a f\u0103cut el nu e gre\u0219it, at\u00e2ta c\u0103 nu a ajuns la un rezultat corect, dar cui pula mea \u00eei pas\u0103 de astea, c\u0103 scuze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0102sta e momentul c\u00e2nd, de obicei, eu \u00eencep s\u0103 dau cu lopata<\/a>, nu m\u0103 mai uit, desigur, nimic personal, at\u00e2ta c\u0103 m\u0103 doare \u00een pul\u0103 de colegialitate, snowflake\u0219i, ascunderea incompeten\u021bei \u0219i alte aspecte. Coaie, eu c\u00e2nd gre\u0219esc, am g\u0103leata de cenu\u0219\u0103 gata de turnat \u00een cap, furtunul de la ma\u0219ina de sp\u0103lat preg\u0103tit – d\u0103 mam\u0103 cu biciu-n mine, nu caut scuze \u0219i s\u0103-l iau la pul\u0103 pe \u0103la care-mi face un bine \u0219i-mi arat\u0103 cum e corect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am \u00eencercat s\u0103-i explic omene\u0219te, dup\u0103 care i-am spus \u00een stilul meu – b\u0103i, pul\u0103, ia vezi , c\u0103 \u00een mailul \u0103la eu nici nu vorbeam cu tine ( e dintr-o cast\u0103 \u00eenferioar\u0103 mie, plm) ci eram deja \u00eentr-o discu\u021bie cu \u0219efii t\u0103i. Puteam s\u0103 trimit mailul f\u0103r\u0103 tine , dar m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 e util s\u0103 \u0219tii \u0219i tu, c\u0103 a\u0219a e corect. C\u0103 nu, c\u0103 pula mea, c\u0103 de ce?! De pul\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 cl\u0103n\u021b\u0103ne, evident. Hai pul\u0103, stai lini\u0219tit, c\u0103 le dau eu alora un mail s\u0103 le spun c\u0103 n-au \u00een\u021beles ei \u0219i tu n-ai gre\u0219it cu nimic. E bine? Meh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceea ce am \u0219i f\u0103cut lol. Iar de atunci, boul tot bou este, m\u0103 caut\u0103 lumea, deschide incidente cu priorit\u0103\u021bi , escaleaz\u0103, eu repar, c\u0103 e pe bani, de ce nu, nu-l mai pun \u00een CC-uri, nici nu-i mai intreb pe \u0219efi dac\u0103 vor s\u0103-i fac un training, ce face el e foarte bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sigur, e posibil s\u0103 fie concediat c\u00e2ndva, n-am s\u0103 sugerez eu asta, doamne fere\u0219te – eu am nevoie de pro\u0219ti \u00een echip\u0103 s\u0103 par \u0219i eu mai r\u0103s\u0103rit, dar pentru c\u0103 e un idiot notoriu \u0219i pentru c\u0103 la fiecare gre\u0219eal\u0103 pe care o repar eu, pun un screenshot \u00een care explic ce e gre\u0219it ( pentru \u0103ilal\u021bi care vor s\u0103 fie prin mailuri ,desigur, nu pentru el) \u0219i \u00een unele se \u0219i vede cine a f\u0103cut modific\u0103rile alea, iar unde nu se vede, nu-i bai, c\u0103 mai cerceteaz\u0103 unul-altul, n-am eu timp de astea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 timp, omul presupun c\u0103 a fost luat la \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u0219i m-a c\u0103utat. Nu, nu ca s\u0103-i spun unde a gre\u0219it \u0219i cum repar\u0103, c\u0103 nu \u0219tie, normal, ci c\u0103 de ce nu \u00eel caut eu pe el, dom’ne, s\u0103 \u00eei explic eu lui unde a gre\u0219it, s\u0103 repare el \u0219i s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 el cu userii \u0219i c\u0103 de ce am eu discu\u021bii cu management f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l pun eu \u00een CC. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I-am explicat simplu. C\u0103 a\u0219a se face, coaie. A\u0219a e profesional, cic\u0103 – sau a\u0219a mi-au zis mie c\u0103 ar fi. Nimic personal. Aici nu ne tragem de pul\u0103, nu-\u021bi convine, f\u0103 o pl\u00e2ngere, eu cred c\u0103 e\u0219ti foarte competent \u0219i n-am nimic s\u0103 te-nv\u0103\u021b, sau s\u0103-\u021bi spun. Doar le rezolv \u0103stora problemele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cic\u0103 sunt r\u0103u. Eee pula, asta \u0219tiam, dar ce-are a face? Mi se spune din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd c\u0103carma e o curv\u0103 \u0219i o s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc. OK, fie, da’ momentan beau pe caiet, nu m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103. Contractul s-a prelungit, p\u00e2n\u0103 la toamn\u0103 o ard tot aci, tot r\u0103u, tot ciufut. Singurul lucru pe care a\u0219 vrea s\u0103-l schimb e rata pe zi, c\u0103 mi se pare c\u0103 m\u0103 pl\u0103tesc cam pu\u021bin s\u0103 ofer suport emo\u021bional incompeten\u021bilor cu care lucrez. Da’ treac\u0103 de la mine, de data asta, c\u0103 e criz\u0103. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

La \u00eenceputul vie\u021bii mele de muncitor pe planta\u021bii se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpla s\u0103-mi iau c\u00e2te o lopat\u0103 \u00een muie \u0219i c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eentrebam – b\u0103, ce-au…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19159,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[434,500],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-despre-munca","category-self"],"views":1571,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/om-rau.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-4Z0","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19158"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19164,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19158\/revisions\/19164"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}