{"id":19241,"date":"2021-02-28T10:03:08","date_gmt":"2021-02-28T10:03:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19241"},"modified":"2021-02-28T16:05:32","modified_gmt":"2021-02-28T16:05:32","slug":"fiind-tata-la-copiii-iadului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19241","title":{"rendered":"Fiind tat\u0103 la copiii iadului"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Seara, noaptea mai bine zis, c\u0103 nu-s un p\u0103rinte model, strang tabletele copiilor \u0219i-i bag la culcare. Se fac ciorchinete lang\u0103 bunic\u0103-sa, nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 din iubire, c\u00e2t c\u0103 ea-\u0219i p\u0103streaz\u0103 telefonul, c\u0103 e adult \u0219i autoritatea mea are limite de aplicabilitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un copil \u00ee\u0219i pune singur tableta la \u00eenc\u0103rcat, cel\u0103lalt mai mic, \u00een care n-am \u00eencredere c\u0103-i capabil de abstinen\u021b\u0103, mi-o \u00eenm\u00e2neaz\u0103, mie sau m\u0103-sii, \u0219i unul din noi o pune la \u00eenc\u0103rcat pe biroul meu. Sau uit\u0103m. Sau , pentru c\u0103 copilul a str\u00e2mbat toate cablurile microUSB din cas\u0103, pur \u0219i simplu nu se \u00eencarc\u0103. Sau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diminea\u021ba c\u00e2nd se treze\u0219tie, copiii \u0219tiu c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se spele mai \u00eent\u00e2i pe din\u021bi \u0219i pe fa\u021b\u0103 \u0219i restul rutinei de igien\u0103 \u0219i de ie\u0219it din pijamale \u0219i preg\u0103tit de \u0219coal\u0103 ( acum online), drept care, dac\u0103 nu e nimeni , vin, \u00ee\u0219i iau tabletele, \u0219i fug \u00eenapoi \u00een pat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00e2ta c\u0103 de ceva vreme eu m\u0103 trezesc de obicei de diminea\u021b\u0103 \u0219i sunt ca Cerber pe Styx. Adic\u0103 \u00eei dau tableta ca s\u0103 m\u0103 lase \u00een pace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Azi, fiind Sf\u00e2nta Duminic\u0103 \u00een care nu fac nimic mai pu\u021bin o varz\u0103 cu ra\u021b\u0103, pl\u0103tesc ni\u0219te salarii \u0219i am ceva de munc\u0103 la unul din contracte, m-am trezit, am scos tableta de la \u00eencarcat \u0219i am pus telefonul. Copilul venit \u00eentru revendicare se uit\u0103 lung pe mas\u0103 cum din portul microUSB nu iese niciun cablu care s\u0103 mearg\u0103 \u00eenspre \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103tor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afi\u0219ez un r\u00e2njet de Joker \u0219i o \u00eentreb : <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ce zici, am uitat s\u0103 o pun la \u00eenc\u0103rcat, sau am scos-o eu ca s\u0103 \u00eemi pun telefonul . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fiind stins\u0103, nu poate verifica repede , ochiometric. Cu o min\u0103 dezam\u0103git\u0103 \u00eemi reconfirm\u0103 capitalul de \u00eencredere sc\u0103zut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ei, de fapt, n-ai de un’ s\u0103 \u0219tii! Verific\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i o \u021bin l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eei porne\u0219te chestia. Verific\u0103 plenitudinea bateriei, col\u021burile gurii \u00eei pleac\u0103 care-ncotro, \u0219i se \u00eentoarce \u021bop\u0103ind la treaba ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen mintea mea jubilez despre modul simplu de a cre\u0219te \u00eencrederea copilului, prin \u00een\u0219elarea a\u0219tept\u0103rilor \u00eentr-un mod pozitiv . Psihologie la cing\u0103toare, taic\u0103. Smoke and mirrors. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Urma s\u0103 verific verbal aceast\u0103 situa\u021biune, c\u00e2nd copilul se \u00eentoarce \u0219i-mi spune franc, z\u00e2mbind, \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fi apucat eu s\u0103 \u00eentreb ceva : <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Dar s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 tot n-am \u00eencredere \u00een tine!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i pleac\u0103 r\u00e2z\u00e2nd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oglinda-n care-mi exersez vanitatea se crap\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103\u021bi \u0219i se f\u0103r\u00e2ma mai departe-n nisip.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Seara, noaptea mai bine zis, c\u0103 nu-s un p\u0103rinte model, strang tabletele copiilor \u0219i-i bag la culcare. Se fac ciorchinete lang\u0103 bunic\u0103-sa, nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19242,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[571,500],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-log","category-self"],"views":1950,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Children-of-hell.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-50l","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19241"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19262,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241\/revisions\/19262"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}