{"id":19463,"date":"2021-03-30T04:37:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-30T03:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19463"},"modified":"2021-03-29T15:13:44","modified_gmt":"2021-03-29T14:13:44","slug":"rant-cu-stele-si-motivatie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=19463","title":{"rendered":"Rant cu stele \u0219i motiva\u021bie"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00e2ndva, c\u00e2nd era \u0219coala online am observat c\u0103 \u0103ia de la \u0219coala unuia din copiii au \u00eenceput un program de stimulare \u0219i recunoa\u0219tere a performan\u021belor deosebite cu stele \u201dstar student\u201d . Mai u\u0219or de observat ni\u0219te pattern-uri dac\u0103 ai preten\u021bii de la copiii t\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin am observat zic c\u0103 am dedus prin lips\u0103 c\u0103 numele alei mele nu ap\u0103rea pe lista \u0103lora cu stele \u0219i-mi zic \u201db\u0103, ce pula mea?\u201d. Indieni, pakistanezi, chinezi, polonezi, al\u021bi rom\u00e2ni ( nu mul\u021bi, dup\u0103 nume c\u0103 nu-s mul\u021bi \u00een \u0219coal\u0103, dar totu\u0219i), chiar \u0219i britanici, dar copilul meu nimic. \u0218i mi s-a trezit sentimentul \u0103la rom\u00e2nesc de \u201d\u0103la de ce are \u0219i tu nu?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am avut o discu\u021bie simpl\u0103: \u201dB\u0103i, tat\u0103, nu se poate. Tu ce inve\u021bi acolo? E ceva ce nu \u0219tii, s\u0103 te ajut s\u0103 te remarci, poate trebuie s\u0103 petreci mai mult timp \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u00e2nd \u0219i mai pu\u021bin pe tablet\u0103? Vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d \u0219i eu o stea, altfel trebuie s\u0103 analiz\u0103m cum po\u021bi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi performan\u021bele \u0219i ce-\u021bi lipse\u0219te.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare v\u0103d pac, o stea. Vine \u0219i mi-o aduce pe sistemul \u201duite-\u021bi, m\u0103 steaua, acuma las\u0103-m\u0103-n pace.\u201d . La muzic\u0103-n pula mea. Nu zic, face ni\u0219te chestii mi\u0219to mixeaz\u0103 muzic\u0103 destul de mi\u0219to, eu nu cred c\u0103 pot a\u0219a bine, dar totu\u0219i – matematic\u0103, rom\u00e2n\u0103, astea? \u0218i at\u00e2t c\u0103 e greu, c\u0103 profesorii nu dau ( dec\u00e2t altora, se \u00een\u021belege), c\u0103 manele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dO STEA?!\u201d. Am v\u0103zut c\u0103 erau unii care aveau 4-5-6 stele, nu mul\u021bi, dar erau vreo trei, patru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 blodog\u0103rea nevasta c\u0103 stai, c\u0103 au vreo 170 de elevi \u00een anul \u0103sta \u0219i doar vreo 17 au stele \u0219i e suficient c\u0103 are \u0219i UNA. Pe sistemul \u201ddec\u00e2t nimic\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u0103 e \u00een cei mai buni 10% la \u0219coala general\u0103, ce pula mea e cu del\u0103sarea asta \u00een cas\u0103? M-a n\u0103p\u0103dit un calendar \u00eentreg de sfin\u021bi, pe care l-am repetat doar \u00een mintea mea, dar m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam, oare, de ce nu am r\u0103mas \u0219i eu doar \u00een primii 10% din Rom\u00e2nia, s\u0103 nu fi \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat la \u0219coala general\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 i-am speriat pe \u0103ia, s\u0103 nu fi mers la olimpiade, s\u0103-mi fi zis \u0219i mie tata, c\u0103 las\u0103 coaie, e mi\u0219to s\u0103 fii printre cel mai pu\u021bin pro\u0219ti dintre analfabe\u021bii din clasa ta, s\u0103 avem \u0219i noi un apartament pe undeva prin Rom\u00e2nia, s\u0103 am un job la mi\u0219to \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 trag de \u0219ireturi pentru promov\u0103ri , concedieri \u0219i m\u0103riri de salariu cu managerul \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 scald \u00een spa\u021biul posibilit\u0103\u021bilor majorit\u0103\u021bii, ce pula mea at\u00e2ta zbatere pentru 1%? De ce am plecat eu din Rom\u00e2nia unde era mi\u0219to \u0219i bine \u0219i aveam de toate cum \u00eemi plac mie ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 sunt eu exagerat, c\u0103 astea. Auzi, 10%. Cum ar veni, \u00een r\u00e2nd cu pleava. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 timp vine copilul c\u0103 vrea s\u0103-\u0219i ia chitar\u0103. Ia-\u021bi, tat\u0103, din aloca\u021bie. \u00ce\u0219i ia. Mai vine apoi c\u0103 vrea o masc\u0103 de nu \u0219tiu care s\u0103 o picteze \u0219i c\u0103 e scump, c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu ce. B\u0103, un jeg din ghips, de 73 de lire<\/a>, calcula\u021bi voi \u00een lei ( ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 e un gunoi, s-a \u0219i ieftinit acum \u0219i tot scump\u0103 e). Un absolut capriciu ca s\u0103 nimic, serios. N-a\u0219 fi dat at\u00e2\u021bia bani pe gunoiul \u0103la nici s\u0103 m\u0103 ba\u021bi. So\u021bia la fel, c\u0103 nu, nu cump\u0103r\u0103m noi a\u0219a ceva . Normal, a\u0219a ar face ni\u0219te oameni chibzui\u021bi care trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 griji de cheltuieli \u0219i ziua de m\u00e2ine \u0218I AM FOST DE ACORD. \u0218i i-am spus copilului fix asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0102ia care NU TREBUIE s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 griji de pre\u021bul \u0103sta sunt \u0103ia pentru care 73 de lire sunt m\u0103run\u021bis. Munca pe o or\u0103, sau poate mai pu\u021bin. Dar \u0103ia nu-s \u00een 10%, \u0103ia sunt \u00een 1% sau mai pu\u021bin. \u0102ia care nu se cac\u0103 pe ei c\u00e2nd aud c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie cei mai buni, c\u0103 nu-i de ajuns s\u0103 fie mediocri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 dac\u0103 vrea masca aia , s\u0103 fac\u0103 bine s\u0103 se prezinte cu 6 stele \u0219i am fost indulgent, c\u0103 cel mai bun copil din \u0219coala aia avea, la momentul discu\u021biei, 7 stele. Trebuia s\u0103 cer 8, dar am zis c\u0103 hai, am suflet de mam\u0103. Dac\u0103 nu, s\u0103 picteze \u00een mintea ei, c\u0103 la nivelul \u0103la nu ne permitem mai mult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni aveam 7 stele pe mas\u0103 \u0219i soma\u021bia s\u0103 cump\u0103r masca. B\u0103i, s\u0103 fie al dracu’, se putu a\u0219a repede? Vai, m\u0103 doare un picior, opera\u021bia, eu nu \u00een\u021beleg bine limba, scuze. C\u00e2nd e vorba de bani \u0219i foloase reale te scuturi pu\u021bin \u0219i gata, ai? Capitalismul \u0103sta p\u0103c\u0103tos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era vorba aia cu milit\u0103ria jos din pod. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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