{"id":21129,"date":"2021-12-14T03:49:58","date_gmt":"2021-12-14T03:49:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=21129"},"modified":"2021-12-14T09:25:48","modified_gmt":"2021-12-14T09:25:48","slug":"familia-ca-o-cursa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=21129","title":{"rendered":"Familia ca o curs\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acesta este un panseu in care \u00eencerc s\u0103 m\u0103 privesc pe mine prin alte filtre \u0219i pe al\u021bii prin filtrul meu. Asem\u0103n\u0103rile cu persoane reale sunt inerente, dar logica poate fi distorsionat\u0103 de inferen\u021be.&nbsp; Are mai pu\u021bin leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu formula 1, dar trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 leg de ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai citesc pe la <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nwradu.ro\/2021\/12\/verstappen-campion-hamilton-strategie-gresita\/\" target=\"_blank\">nwradu<\/a> despre Formula 1, eu nu m\u0103 mai uit de pe vremea c\u00e2nd c\u00e2\u0219tiga Schumacher p\u00e2n\u0103 ne-a plictisit pe to\u021bi. Mor\u021bii lui, c\u0103 l-a f\u0103cut pe colegul lui, Barichello, roata a doua. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A fost perioada aia absolut inutil\u0103, nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpla nimic, se c\u00e2\u0219tigau curse la boxe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe urm\u0103 a&nbsp; venit Hamilton \u0219i s \u00eenceput s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tige tot \u0219i de la o vreme se b\u0103tea c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t cu Verstappen. Anul \u0103sta a fost groas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Cu scandal pe decizii de juriu \u0219i r\u0103sturn\u0103ri de situa\u021bie , p\u00e2n\u0103 la situa\u021bia \u00een care campionul urma s\u0103 se decid\u0103 \u00een cursa de alalt\u0103ieri.&nbsp; \u0218i am zis c\u0103 nu ar strica s\u0103 v\u0103d \u0219i eu o curs\u0103.&nbsp; Mi-am pus ceasul s\u0103 sune \u0219i mi-am v\u0103zut de ale mele p\u00e2n\u0103 m-a \u00eentrebat so\u021bia dac\u0103 merg s\u0103 o iau azi de la aeroport sau ii chem un taxi. &#8220;Cum crezi c\u0103 vreau&#8230;&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De diminea\u021b\u0103 mi-am pus GPS-ul \u0219i i-am dat&nbsp; dat NOS-ul la Meriva p\u00e2n\u0103 la aeroport. \u0218i \u00eenapoi, c\u0103 evident c\u0103 a\u0219a vrea, eu sunt cel mai rapid indian (fastest Indian, got it ?)&nbsp; \u0219ofer de taxi . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am ajuns la timp pentru curs\u0103, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 am pornit eu tembelizorul deja&nbsp; \u00eencepuse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So\u021bia c\u0103 dac\u0103 o duc \u0219i pe ea s\u0103 fac\u0103 testul PCR obligatoriu, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 pizza, c\u0103 le-a promis copiilor. \u0218i c\u0103 dac\u0103 merge ea e posibil s\u0103 fie aglomerat \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2rzie. \u0218i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> M\u0103 uit la ceas, m\u0103 uit la ea, c\u0103 se vedea clar c\u0103 se trezise&nbsp; de la 4 diminea\u021ba \u00een Rom\u00e2nia c\u0103 nu mai avea r\u0103bdare s\u0103 le fac\u0103 copiilor pizza 10 ore mai t\u00e2rziu \u00een UK ,&nbsp; m\u0103 uit la ei&#8230; m\u0103 uit la Hamilton c\u0103 nu se d\u0103 nici de-al dracu&#8217; din prima pozi\u021bie , de\u0219i prin turul 30 \u0219i ceva, in&nbsp; timpul unui soi de Safety Car event, Verstappen \u0219i echipa lui au o strategie mai buna de schimbat cauciucuri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Socot c\u0103 pizza e important\u0103, c\u0103 doar am fost de-am luat ingrediente, iar so\u021bia \u00ee\u0219i am\u00e2n\u0103 odihna pentru asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se face ora \u0219i plec\u0103m \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2n cu un gust de &#8220;cred c\u0103 nu mai prind o curs\u0103 c\u0103 asta in zece ani, dar o s\u0103 v\u0103d reluarea, ce pula mea s\u0103 se mai \u00eent\u00e2mple, totu\u0219i&#8221; . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 recupera Verstappen, dar nu c\u00e2t s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tige. S-a mai \u00eent\u00e2mplat un accident, iar cu Safety carul, Hamilton nu s-a dus la boxe, justificat pe undeva, ca \u0219i prima oar\u0103.&nbsp; C\u0103 dac\u0103 se ducea probabil ie\u0219ea \u00een spatele lui Verstappen, care mai fusese o dat\u0103 la boxe \u0219i nu trebuia musai s\u0103 schimbe.&nbsp; Iar atunci b\u0103nuiesc c\u0103 nu s-a dus pentru c\u0103 colegul lui Verstappen , Perez, era pe 3 \u0219i l-ar fi \u021binut \u00een spate la re-entry, c\u00e2t mergea Safety Carul virtual \u0219i nu era permis\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219irea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verstappen nu a avut ce pierde, a intrat pe 2 \u0219i a ie\u0219it tot pe doi ( c\u0103 \u00eentre ei \u0219i restul era \u00een pula mea juma&#8217; de tur c\u00e2nd am plecat eu) at\u00e2ta c\u0103 \u00eentre el \u0219i Hamilton erau ni\u0219te \u00eent\u00e2rzia\u021bi din aia cu un tur in urm\u0103. Vreo 5 parca. Dac\u0103 organizatorii nu-i l\u0103sau s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 Safety carul ( de data asta real ) aia era, tot pe 2 \u0219i Verstappen. Dar au decis s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 o plec\u0103ciune \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei lase, iar \u0103sta era \u00eenc\u0103l\u021bat cu ce trebuie ca s\u0103 \u00eei dea fum lui Hamilton \u0219i i-a dat pe pizd\u0103 mai spectaculos dec\u00e2t \u00eentr-un meci de wrestling. Era a\u0219a ceva ce probabil a\u0219tepta mult\u0103 lume. C\u0103 pentru asta te-ai putea uita la F1, sau \u00een general la orice sport de TV\/tribun\u0103. Pentru genul asta de show. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, eu nu am v\u0103zut asta \u0219i am dat drumul la reluare c\u00e2nd am ajuns acas\u0103 ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i eu cum s-a terminat \u0219i ce am pierdut, cum ar veni.&nbsp; \u0218i c\u00e2nd fac din astea, vreau s\u0103 fiu ne-deranjat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A venit primul copil s\u0103 m\u0103 cheme la pizza \u0219i i-am spus politicos s\u0103 ias\u0103 c\u0103 vin eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd a venit al doilea copil s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrerup\u0103 am avut un pic sentimentul \u0103la de via\u021b\u0103 furat\u0103. Acum 20&nbsp; ani, dac\u0103 m\u0103 deranja cineva a\u0219a \u00eel scoteam afar\u0103 \u00een palme cu piciorul \u0219i flegme putea s\u0103 aib\u0103 100 de kile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum a trebuit s-o fac f\u0103r\u0103 astea, c\u0103 suntem civiliza\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 familia e important\u0103 pentru mine,&nbsp; mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t o curs\u0103 de formula 1 , fie ea \u0219i cursa deceniului. Dar m-am g\u00e2ndit la o chestie \u0219i uneori \u00een\u021beleg oamenii abuzivi \u0219i agresivi \u0219i care au fitilul ceva mai scurt dec\u00e2t al meu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu-i bai, c\u0103 am ajuns in buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i am v\u0103zut c\u0103 \u0219i so\u021bia era tratata&nbsp; cu un respect \u0219i mai dihai pentru efortul ei, copiii se certau de nu ziceai c\u0103 suntem familie, ci adun\u0103tur\u0103 de degenera\u021bi in pragul sociopatiei.&nbsp; Am plecat din buc\u0103t\u0103rie&nbsp; c\u0103 altfel \u0219tergeam cu ele pe jos \u0219i nu era chiar cinstit, c\u0103 copiii nu-s capabili s\u0103 vad\u0103 toat\u0103 poza, o s\u0103 fie surprin\u0219i \u0219i o s\u0103 li se par\u0103 c\u0103 nu e cinstit, dom&#8217;ne, c\u0103 sub nicio forma nu trebuie s\u0103 love\u0219ti copiii c\u0103 nu-s ei de vin\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti tu in stare s\u0103 \u00eei educi mai bine. Cum mi se p\u0103rea \u0219i mie c\u00e2nd \u00eemi mai futea tata c\u00e2te una f\u0103r\u0103 avertisment, spre deosebire de alea pe care le lu\u0103m dup\u0103 un num\u0103r considerabil de avertismente \u0219i ultime avertismente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 rog, tata nu avea procese din astea de con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 despre cum e vina ta, c\u0103-s copiii pro\u0219ti. O fi, dar tot pe copii punea hamul, ce e cu vrajelile \u0103stea.\u00a0\u00a0 Nu e sindromul Stockholm, nu i-am dat \u0219i nu o s\u0103 \u00eei dau vreodat\u0103 dreptate, dar nici nu pot s\u0103 m\u0103 prefac c\u0103 era lipsit de logic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 undeva \u00een mentalul social s-a creat un soi de entitlement nemeritat \u0219i nu \u0219tiu de unde, exact. C\u0103 dac\u0103 ai familie e\u0219ti obligat s\u0103 pui totul pe planul doi. Totul \u0103la \u00eenseamn\u0103 adesea p\u0103r\u021bi importante&nbsp; din via\u021ba mea pe care le dai la schimb pe astfel de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103.&nbsp; C\u0103 \u00een mintea ta faci astea pentru o familie unita \u0219i recunosc\u0103toare, iar viitorul familiei sunt copiii.  Iar undeva chestia asta se rupe, pe spinarea cuiva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acuma, eu nu m\u0103 trag pe cur aici, c\u0103 eu nu pun chiar totul pe planul doi<strong>, <\/strong>adic\u0103 via\u021ba mea nu e o curs\u0103 am\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 de la televizor, dar unii nu au de fapt cu mult mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2ta. C\u00e2nd se uit\u0103 \u00een sacul lor cu bun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi, pe acolo prin fundul sacului e cate o curs\u0103 din \u0103sta sau un meci cu echipa favorit\u0103, o bere proast\u0103 cu prietenii lor be\u021bivi la c\u00e2rcium\u0103,&nbsp; o \u021bigar\u0103 fumat\u0103 in lini\u0219te, sau poate nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu mi-e greu s\u0103 observ c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd i se ia \u0219i nimicul \u0103la, un om ( s\u0103 zicem eu \u00eentr-un univers alternativ ) ar putea foarte u\u0219or reac\u021biona diferit dec\u00e2t reac\u021bionez eu, care pierd o curs\u0103, dar caut prin sac \u0219i g\u0103sesc repede alte alea . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 societatea a recurs prea repede la a aroga drepturi familiei in detrimentul individului , poate ar trebui s\u0103 ne educam copiii altfel, c\u0103 ei sunt familiile de m\u00e2ine. Iar p\u0103rin\u021bii mei pe mine m-au educat a\u0219a cum spun, c\u0103 familia e OK s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi ia tot. Pentru ei tr\u0103ie\u0219ti.&nbsp; Poate nu e OK. Poate e o curs\u0103 pentru cei mai mul\u021bi.  Din aia de \u0219oareci, pentru mai pu\u021bini este ca una de F1. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate uneori e ok s\u0103 ii bagi cu capul in pizza \u0219i s\u0103 le torni ketchup pe nas, just for fun, in timp ce te ui\u021bi la televizor \u0219i&nbsp; r\u00e2g\u00e2i dup\u0103 a 5-a bere, doar a\u0219a, pentru a seta un banchmark corect \u0219i pentru a antrena glanda bunului sim\u021b in a pricepe niste subtilit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i limite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mie nu mi se pare OK acum, gen nu pot tr\u0103i chiar \u00eemp\u0103cat cu mine s\u0103 fac asta, dar poate c\u0103 \u00eentr-un univers alternativ e ceva ce a\u0219 face, motiv pentru care nu prea m\u0103 pot pozi\u021biona foarte critic cu privire la oamenii care aleg s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta \u0219i sunt da\u021bi drept exemple negative. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Acesta este un panseu in care \u00eencerc s\u0103 m\u0103 privesc pe mine prin alte filtre \u0219i pe al\u021bii prin filtrul meu. 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