{"id":23994,"date":"2023-02-01T05:22:36","date_gmt":"2023-02-01T05:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=23994"},"modified":"2023-02-01T05:22:36","modified_gmt":"2023-02-01T05:22:36","slug":"1st-dad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=23994","title":{"rendered":"1st Dad"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Unul din copii tot face din astea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stickere , chestii cu “first dad” , “love you” , prostii din astea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nu e c\u0103 e ziua tat\u0103lui, sau ce s\u0103rb\u0103tori mai au \u0103\u0219tia p-aici, sau c\u0103 sunt din alea care se fac standard la \u0219coal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 trezesc c\u0103 face stickere random \u0219i mi le lipe\u0219te te miri c\u00e2nd pe te miri unde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acuma, nu e c\u0103 m\u0103 umflu \u00een pene, c\u0103 nu sunt perfect, \u0219i nu cred c\u0103 sunt cel mai bun tat\u0103, dar din fericire copiii nu au mai mul\u021bi ta\u021bi din care s\u0103 aleag\u0103 altul cel mai bun; presupun c\u0103 stickerul \u0103sta ar avea mai mare valoare \u00eentr-o familie britanic\u0103 cu 4-5 copii \u0219i tot at\u00e2\u021bia ta\u021bi. Atunci po\u021bi spune c\u0103 discut\u0103m de o concuren\u021b\u0103 real\u0103 \u0219i o evaluare mai obiectiv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unde vreau s\u0103 ajung cu asta totu\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E interesant c\u0103 copilul m\u0103 apreciaz\u0103 \u00eentr-at\u00e2t c\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eemi spun\u0103 asta f\u0103r\u0103 un eveniment formal, c\u0103 am zis c\u0103 nu sunt nici pe aproape de perfect, dar m\u0103 las \u0219i eu , ca orice om ( din familia mea ) educat de copii. C\u0103 de aia \u00eei trimit la \u0219coal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la mine. Eu nu i-am spus tat\u0103lui meu vreodat\u0103 “1st dad”. Acum, \u00een momentul \u0103sta, tata e #1 dad (\u0219i mama \u0219i mai no #1); acum pot s\u0103 v\u0103d asta. Dar copil\u0103ria mea nu a fost a\u0219a luminoas\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eei v\u0103d ca p\u0103rin\u021bi ideali – mai m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam dac\u0103 nu a\u0219 putea s\u0103 \u00eei omor \u00een somn. Am zis c\u0103 nu sunt perfect? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e c\u0103 nu m-au iubit, de\u0219i au fost momente c\u00e2nd m-au detestat, pentru c\u0103 eram detestabil sau ajungeam\/ cream situa\u021bii \u00een care nu aveam cum s\u0103 fiu altfel. \u0218i ei erau detestabili in ochii mei atunci \u00een unele momente \u0219i media nu se ridica undeva la un nivel la care s\u0103 \u00eei apreciez ca”1st” . Via\u021ba e complex\u0103…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat pentru c\u0103 nu m\u0103 apreciau, sau pentru c\u0103 nu f\u0103ceau lucruri pentru mine, ci pentru c\u0103 posibilit\u0103\u021bile lor erau reduse, \u0219i materiale \u0219i intelectuale \u0219i \u00een ciuda faptului <\/strong> <\/strong><\/em>c\u0103 au muncit toat\u0103 via\u021ba lor pentru mine \u0219i fratele meu, asta nu a ie\u0219it mereu bine – drumul spre iad e pavat cu bune inten\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 un r\u0103stimp a ie\u0219it bine, dar au fost multe lucruri incorecte pe care a trebuit s\u0103 le \u00eenghi\u021bim unii la al\u021bii \u0219i nu pot s\u0103 spun c\u0103 am avut imaginea asta \u00een copil\u0103rie , m\u0103car \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103. O am acum, la jum\u0103tatea vie\u021bii ( sper c\u0103 mai am 50 la via\u021b\u0103, nu \u00eemi e clar ) . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceea ce pentru mine \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u00e2teva lucruri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peste timp, peste genera\u021bii, este un real progres. Ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u0103i b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, aveau dreptate – dac\u0103 nu ai copii buni, nu ai nimic. \u0218i familia este ce ii \u00eenve\u021bi pe copiii t\u0103i s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eenve\u021be pe copiii lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altul este c\u0103 comunicarea e important\u0103 \u0219i face diferen\u021ba mai mult dec\u00e2t inteligen\u021ba sau prostia. Cel mai important lucru pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eel fac\u0103 oamenii e s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 comunice. S\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 transmit\u0103 informa\u021bii. Eu \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b s\u0103 vorbesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultimul e c\u0103 chestia asta o sa dureze \u0219i c\u0103 e nevoie de un interval de timp destul de lung, genera\u021bii, pentru un progres s\u0103n\u0103tos. Nu e c\u0103 nu po\u021bi avea pe cineva genial in familie, sau norocos, care poate s\u0103 schimbe munca tuturor in pu\u021bin timp, e c\u0103 e nevoie de mult\u0103 munc\u0103 s\u0103 ai grij\u0103 ca valorile se men\u021bin peste timp \u0219i nu ai o genera\u021bie de idio\u021bi care \u00ee\u0219i bag\u0103 pula \u00een tot. Consisten\u021ba e mai important\u0103 dec\u00e2t sprintul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u0219tiu cum am ajuns aici, dar mi se pare c\u0103 e mai pu\u021bin meritul meu \u0219i e, ca \u00een discursurile de c\u0103cat corporatiste, foarte mult o munc\u0103 de echip\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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