{"id":31487,"date":"2025-05-28T03:43:00","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T02:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=31487"},"modified":"2025-05-28T06:40:19","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T05:40:19","slug":"ii-arivismul-vremurilor-din-uk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=31487","title":{"rendered":"(II) &#8211; \u201dArivismul vremurilor\u201d &#8211; din UK"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n\n<p>Citatul e c\u0103 am auzit expresia la Banciu, am zis <a href=\"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=31245\">unde<\/a>, nu reiau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi spunea fie-mea c\u0103 din toate colegele ei, ea e aproape singura care are tat\u0103,  cu care s\u0103 \u0219i locuiasc\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, c\u0103 a\u0219a, nu-s toate f\u0103cute \u00een eprubet\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mai multe mame divor\u021bate,  \u00een alte cazuri ta\u021bii au mai murit, care de boal\u0103 , care a alunecat pe sc\u0103ri beat. Una din colege nu poate avea tat\u0103 c\u0103 are dou\u0103 mame ( nu m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi detalii, familii moderne, aicea nu e cu tradi\u021bionale)  &#8211; care \u0219i acelea sunt divor\u021bate,  \u0219i dac\u0103 am re\u021binut bine ea locuie\u0219te cu mama vitreg\u0103 dintre ele.   Evident s\u0103 m\u0103 dezorientez uneori c\u00e2nd mai ascult vreo istorisire sau m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe de-o parte nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103 apreciez o societate care permite familiilor monoparentale s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 normal, sau pe c\u00e2t posibil normal. A\u0219a ar trebui s\u0103 fie societatea. <br \/>Pe de alta, societatea asta normalizeaz\u0103 e\u0219ecurile, accidentele \u0219i lipsa de implicare &#8211; anume \u201dcommitment\u201d sau loialitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen 2021 rata divor\u021burilor fusese 42% \u00een UK ( pandemia?) , urm\u00e2nd ca \u00een 2022 s\u0103 scad\u0103 semnificativ la 30% \u0219i tot scade vag. Aparent ni\u0219te cupluri nou formate nu \u0219i-au permis divor\u021bul c\u0103 ajungeau pe drumuri. Iar aspecul \u0103sta mereu a jucat un rol \u00een societate. Unul nociv, pe de o parte &#8211; prea s\u0103rac s\u0103 divor\u021bezi, constructiv, pe de alta, c\u0103 contruie\u0219ti un c\u0103min , o familie. Poate. Sau poate nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu care este r\u0103spunsul corect, dar c\u00e2nd dintr-un grup statistic de copii, dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi sunt singurul tat\u0103, sigur nu poate fi r\u0103spunsul corect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Externalizarea r\u0103spunsului \u00een \u201darivismul vremurilor\u201d nu e satisf\u0103c\u0103toare. Nici expresia \u201dsocietatea ne-a adus \u00een.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este vorba de deciziile noastre \u0219i o s\u0103 mai lucrez la asta, c\u0103 n-am un r\u0103spuns acum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Citatul e c\u0103 am auzit expresia la Banciu, am zis unde, nu reiau. \u00cemi spunea fie-mea c\u0103 din toate colegele ei, ea e aproape singura&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29716,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31487","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":636,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/UK-shreded.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-8bR","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=31487"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31487\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31488,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31487\/revisions\/31488"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/29716"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=31487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=31487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=31487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}