{"id":35494,"date":"2026-03-12T02:19:00","date_gmt":"2026-03-12T02:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=35494"},"modified":"2026-02-24T15:43:49","modified_gmt":"2026-02-24T15:43:49","slug":"una-cu-oculta-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=35494","title":{"rendered":"Una cu oculta social media"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nu \u0219tiu al\u021bii cum sunt, dar eu am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 patronii de social media de orice fel mi-au furat aten\u021bia \u0219i-mi dau pula pe b\u0103\u021b.

Eu am fost reluctant s\u0103 dau aten\u021bia mea \u0219i prima sl\u0103biciune am avut-o \u00een 2012, c\u00e2nd nu \u0219tiu ce m\u0103 b\u0103tea la cap o coleg\u0103 de la un serviciu , Daniela o cheam\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103-i pun linkul de facebook aici – c\u0103 TOAT\u0102 lumea e acolo \u0219i nu mai face nimeni update-uri IRL, toat\u0103 lumea face update-uri pe FB.

Nu mi-a pl\u0103cut ideea de la \u00eenceput, dar am zis c\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d dac\u0103 e a\u0219a. A\u0219a a fost \u0219i m-am trezit men\u021bin\u00e2ndu-mi pozele pe FB – de t\u00e2mpit, de aia, c\u0103 nu aveam , la ora aia un tool mai bun \u0219i mai rezilient – adic\u0103 po\u021bi s\u0103 te \u0219i \u0219tergi de acolo, c\u0103 tot r\u0103m\u00e2i, lol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i dup\u0103 aia restul.
\u0218i, p\u0103rea o rela\u021bie simbiotic\u0103, pentru c\u0103 avea utilitate. Vedeai acolo update-uri de la cunoscu\u021bi.
B\u0103i, \u0219i chestia asta era toxic\u0103, dar nu am perceput-o atunci, mi s-a p\u0103rut un avantaj, nu \u0219tiu de ce. Dar nu e util s\u0103 afli toat\u0103 ziua bun\u0103 ziua ce mai fac to\u021bi cunoscu\u021bii. \u0218i s\u0103 cape\u021bi o adic\u021bie s\u0103 verifici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Num\u0103rul meu de cunoscu\u021bi de acolo a r\u0103mas \u00een timp destul de mic, dar nu mai conteaz\u0103, c\u0103 nici m\u0103car 1% din timp nu mai aflu ceva de la vreun cunoscut, dac\u0103 nu pune ceva ce str\u00e2nge likeuri multe, dac\u0103 nu pl\u0103te\u0219te, sau dac\u0103 nu e ceva edgy care m-ar putea face invidios, enervat, sau dac\u0103 nu e like sau comentariu la post\u0103rile altora mai influen\u021bi.
Eu mi-am sters toate post\u0103rile, pozele \u0219i comentariile de pe facebook, men\u021bin Instagram, dracu \u0219tie de ce, o s\u0103 le \u0219terg \u0219i pe alea , dar nu conteaz\u0103!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce conteaz\u0103 e c\u0103 am detectat c\u0103 ceea ce pierd important nu-s datele personale, nici g\u00e2nd. Ci timp, timp \u00een care devin deformat de informa\u021biile proferate. Vreau-nu-vreau, \u00eemi creaz\u0103 o impresie \u0219i am o reac\u021bie la lucruri la care nu ar trebui s\u0103 am nicio reac\u021bie \u0219i informa\u021biile \u0103stea de valoare proast\u0103 se tot repet\u0103 \u0219i deschid cr\u0103p\u0103turi \u00een caracterul meu \u0219i discu\u021bii lungi \u0219i inutile.
Am ie\u0219it din majoritatea grupurilor de whatsapp inutile, pe cele pe care sunt le \u021bin pe mute, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tiu nimic urgent. \u0218i telefonul e pe silen\u021bios \u0219i o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de contacte pe mute. Oamenii care m\u0103 pot deranja la orice or\u0103 sunt pu\u021bini – iar aceia nu-s pe mute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema e c\u0103 aten\u021bia mea este furat\u0103 \u0219i pentru c\u0103 sunt omul care sunt, am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 cine vrea aten\u021bia mea de obicei pl\u0103te\u0219te serios, comparabil cu facebook, iar \u00een momentul de fa\u021b\u0103 nicio platform\u0103 social media nu mai are ce oferi ca s\u0103 merite timpul meu \u0219i al familiei mele, cu mici excep\u021bii, iar excep\u021biile \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 merg \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eemi iau eu, informa\u021biile pe care le vreau, caut, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care le g\u0103sesc, iar de restul muie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motiv pentru care nu dau like & subscribe la nimic. La absolut nimic, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, cine ce implor\u0103 despre algoritmul care are nevoie de like-ul meu oriunde. NU. Nu vreau s\u0103 \u00eemi aduc\u0103 nimeni \u0219i nimic aminte c\u0103 a mai publicat ceva, ceva asem\u0103n\u0103tor \u0219i pula mea.

\u0218i am observat c\u0103 pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce nu le mai folosesc serviciile altora \u00een aceea\u0219i m\u0103sur\u0103 – timpul meu e mai liber sunt mai pu\u021bin obosit \u0219i m\u0103 tr\u0103iesc o via\u021b\u0103 un pic mai plin\u0103, nu mai goal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am v\u0103zut acum c\u0103 lumea se bucur\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 bani ca s\u0103 li se bage social media \u00een ochi<\/a>. Nu v\u0103d \u0219i nu \u00een\u021beleg de ce! O s\u0103 v\u0103 fac\u0103 implant de social media \u00een creier \u0219i ve\u021bi fi OK cu asta?
De ce?!


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