{"id":35886,"date":"2026-06-08T03:06:37","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T02:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=35886"},"modified":"2026-05-15T06:08:29","modified_gmt":"2026-05-15T05:08:29","slug":"the-path-to-unemployment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=35886","title":{"rendered":"“Enjoy the path to unemployment”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00cen care v\u0103 povestesc cum via\u021ba este amuzant\u0103 \u0219i cum \u201eunde dai \u0219i unde crap\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tot timpul am visat c\u0103 poate voi avea copii c\u0103rora s\u0103 le plac\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021ba, s\u0103 se dedice cercet\u0103rii, s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tige premii Nobel, descoperind buc\u0103\u021bi noi din \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 schimbe lumea, s\u0103 o fac\u0103 mai bun\u0103 sau mai rea, dup\u0103 placul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i dac\u0103 nu, m\u0103car s\u0103 fac\u0103 bani. Mul\u021bi bani, se \u0219tie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, oricum ar fi, orice ar vrea s\u0103 munceasc\u0103 sau s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103, c\u0103 e via\u021ba lor \u0219i alegerile trebuie s\u0103 fie ale lor, nu aveam s\u0103 las copiii f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 lumea, cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103 natura \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b ce \u0219tiu eu, at\u00e2t c\u00e2t reu\u0219esc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i cum am avut noi primul copil, tr\u0103ind \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie economic\u0103 nu neap\u0103rat extraordinar\u0103, \u00een anii \u0103ia am ajuns la concluzia obligatorie c\u0103 matematica \u0219i tehnologia sunt viitorul, \u0219i inteligen\u021ba artificial\u0103, \u0219i c\u0103 pe astea trebuie s\u0103 le \u00eenve\u021be copiii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drept care nici nu \u00eemplinise copilul cel mare trei ani \u0219i ne-am pus \u00eempreun\u0103 s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la filmele mele preferate, LOTR. Am v\u0103zut, a\u0219a, primul film, al doilea film, al treilea film \u0219i to\u021bi hobbi\u021bii, dar acum sunt filmele noastre preferate. \u0218i c\u0103r\u021bile ei preferate , umple casa de Tolkienuri \u0219i o gole\u0219te de bani…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mie nu \u00eemi plac c\u0103r\u021bile. In general zic \u0219i se \u0219i vede, c\u0103 scriu cu cultura \u0219i\u00a0 la fel de agramat ca un troll de pe\u0219ter\u0103 – din \u0103la din filme \u0219i jocuri, nu din c\u0103r\u021bi, nu mai vreau s\u0103 aud de c\u0103r\u021bi! #scoalavieti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i tot pe atunci am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ne juc\u0103m Heroes 3<\/a> \u0219i Starcraft \u0219i Starcraft 2<\/a> \u0219i ne-am uitat la filmul de pe YouTube f\u0103cut din cinematici din joc, \u00een care a putut vedea povestea lui Jim Raynor \u0219i a Sarei Kerrigan, care, dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea mea, este una dintre cele mai frumoase pove\u0219ti din jocuri video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 dinainte de astea o \u021bineam pe genunchi \u0219i ne jucam \u00eempreun\u0103 jocul Avatar 3D \u0219i am v\u0103zut \u0219i filmul, la un moment dat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar seara, \u00eenainte de culcare, \u00eei citeam pove\u0219ti rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti sau Legendele Olimpului, de Alexandru Mitru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probabil c\u0103 am traumatizat-o recit\u00e2ndu-i\u00a0 repetat basmul meu preferat, \u201dTinere\u021be f\u0103r\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be \u0219i via\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 de moarte\u201d, \u0219i, dac\u0103 nu adormea, terminam povestea v\u0103z\u00e2ndu-i ochii \u00een lacrimi, iar mie ridic\u00e2ndu-mi-se p\u0103rul pe m\u00e2ini, a\u0219a cum \u0219i eu am fost traumatizat, sau, mai bine zis, marcat permanent de povestea asta pe care mi-o spunea bunica mea. Nu v\u0103 spun simbolismul, cel general \u00eel g\u0103si\u021bi pe net, dac\u0103 nu<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dup\u0103 care, c\u00e2nd ne-am mutat din Rom\u00e2nia, am insistat ca s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 c\u0103r\u021bi \u00een englez\u0103, c\u0103r\u021bi \u00een rom\u00e2ne\u0219te, c\u0103r\u021bi \u00een toate limbile, ca s\u0103 te prind\u0103 limbile, ca s\u0103 te prind\u0103 comunicarea, pentru c\u0103, la un moment dat \u00een via\u021ba mea, \u00een jurul v\u00e2rstei de 30 de ani, mi-am dat seama c\u0103, \u00een munca mea, capacitatea de comunicare m-a ajutat mai mult dec\u00e2t orice competen\u021be profesionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, cumva, dup\u0103 toate astea, \u00een mintea mea pu\u021bin\u0103 a r\u0103mas ideea imediat simpl\u0103 \u0219i gre\u0219it\u0103 cum c\u0103 sigur sau, dac\u0103 nu sigur, m\u0103car probabil sau m\u0103car posibil copilul va vrea s\u0103 studieze \u0219i s\u0103 se preg\u0103teasc\u0103 pentru o carier\u0103 tehnic\u0103 sau m\u0103car academic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014 Dar de ce vrei tu s\u0103 studiezi teatru \u0219i film, de unde pasiunea asta, \u00een loc s\u0103 studiezi tu matematic\u0103, programare, fizic\u0103, chimie, biologie \u0219i orice \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 mai este, \u00een cel mai r\u0103u caz economie, drept \u0219i politic\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oare de unde?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd eram copil visam s\u0103 fiu poet, ca s\u0103 v\u0103 pun pula pe piept, se \u0219tie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi visam \u0219i actor, visam s\u0103 fac filme, at\u00e2ta c\u0103 eram s\u0103rac de \u00eemi rodea foamea \u0219i buzunarele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, \u00een fiecare moment \u00een care m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103 a\u0219 putea s\u0103 fac un detur c\u0103tre creativitate, c\u0103tre scris, de produc\u021bie artistic\u0103, tot ce am v\u0103zut au fost obliga\u021bii, datorii \u0219i probleme pe care n-a\u0219 fi \u0219tiut cine o s\u0103 le rezolve, dac\u0103 nu eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce n-a\u0219 fi suportat, dup\u0103 ce am trecut deja prin asta, ar fi fost s\u0103 ajung iar s\u0103rac, un artist noaptea vesel, ziua trist, dar, cel mai important, fomist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i, cum copiii sunt viitorul meu, evident c\u0103 m\u0103 roade \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 g\u00e2ndul c\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00eei sus\u021bin \u00een direc\u021bia asta, a\u0219 putea s\u0103-i \u00eemping c\u0103tre nefericire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, cred c\u0103 cea mai mare nefericire pentru un copil e s\u0103 nu te sus\u021bin\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00een ce vrei s\u0103 faci, s\u0103 spun\u0103 piedici, s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 te vireze st\u00e2nga-dreapta unde cred ei c\u0103 e mai bine. Judec\u00e2ndu-i pe p\u0103rin\u021bii mei, a\u0219 putea s\u0103 le repro\u0219ez unele lucruri, foarte multe, dar niciodat\u0103 n-a\u0219 putea s\u0103 le repro\u0219ez c\u0103 nu m-au sus\u021binut \u00een ce am vrut s\u0103 fac sau ce am vrut s\u0103 studiez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103rin\u021bii mei m-au \u00eentrebat de la 14 ani la ce liceu vreau s\u0103 merg, ce vreau s\u0103 studiez, ce vreau s\u0103 lucrez, m-au \u00eempins s\u0103 fac o facultate pe care eu s-o aleg \u0219i au muncit \u0219i au pl\u0103tit studiile pentru mine. Nu s-au preocupat de faptul c\u0103 poate am ales gre\u0219it, nici c\u00e2nd s-a dovedit c\u0103 am ales gre\u0219it, doar m-au \u00eempins s\u0103 joc jocul pe care l-am ales \u0219i s\u0103 studiez ce am promis c\u0103 o s\u0103 studiez, cu singurul scop ca s\u0103 m\u0103 pot descurca mai departe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103i, \u0219i, \u00een ciuda tuturor alegerilor gre\u0219ite pe care, pe unele le-am corectat, pe altele nu, treaba asta a func\u021bionat nu chiar r\u0103u. Pentru c\u0103 cred c\u0103 cel mai important lucru e s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 faci un lucru ca s\u0103 te po\u021bi \u00eenh\u0103ma la el \u0219i s\u0103 te ajute cineva, iar, c\u00e2nd ai nevoie, s\u0103 te poat\u0103 \u00eempinge din spate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu tot comentez c\u0103 a\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 nu se opreasc\u0103 din studiat matematic\u0103, c\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ce vrea ea s\u0103 studieze, s\u0103 mai studieze \u0219i un pic de matematic\u0103 \u0219i un pic de programare \u0219i un pic de\u2026 pe dracul s\u0103 m\u0103 ia. C\u0103 a\u0219a sunt eu, dar nu cum crede\u021bi voi. Copiii mei pot fi conving\u0103tori \u0219i c\u00e2nd m-au convins se v\u0103d \u00eenving\u0103tori<\/a>. Eu tot ce vreau e s\u0103 se conving\u0103 pe ei destul c\u00e2t s\u0103 poat\u0103 sta \u00een picioare pe ideile lor, iar la nevoie s\u0103 \u0219i le care \u00een spate . C\u0103 \u00een genunchi \u0219i \u00eengropa\u021bi sub ele putem to\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, copilul a venit \u0219i a spus clar \u201dnu\u201d, pentru c\u0103 consider\u0103 c\u0103 o \u021bine \u00een loc din a \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba restul ce vrea ea s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be, \u0219i a avut o replic\u0103 foarte interesant\u0103 a\u0219a \u00een dou\u0103 limbi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePlease let me enjoy my easy path towards unemployment and afterwards I can take other paths to unemployment, c\u0103 oricum e destul de dificil pentru tineri s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 joburi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i are dreptate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cel pu\u021bin pe calea c\u0103tre \u0219omerie pe care a ales-o ruleaz\u0103 fin. \u0218i se bucur\u0103 de drumul ei spre \u0219omerie, pe banii no\u0219tri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i \u00eemi d\u0103 ghionturi cu fiecare ocazie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218i nici m\u0103car nu mai sunt \u00een m\u0103sur\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic la nivelul ei pe tarlaua asta de subiecte. Acum \u00eenv\u0103\u021b eu . <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i e OK. Mai mult dec\u00e2t s\u0103 am copii s\u0103raci m-a\u0219 putea sim\u021bi c\u0103 am e\u0219uat dac\u0103 a\u0219 avea copii pro\u0219ti. Mult, mult mai r\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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