{"id":8355,"date":"2017-04-09T14:12:19","date_gmt":"2017-04-09T12:12:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=8355"},"modified":"2017-04-09T18:42:15","modified_gmt":"2017-04-09T16:42:15","slug":"povesti-de-pribegie-copii-si-cum-percep-lipsa-parintelui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/?p=8355","title":{"rendered":"Pove\u0219ti de pribegie: Copiii \u0219i cum percep lipsa parintelui"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Digital_nomad\">Nomad digital<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nomadul digital este, \u00een esen\u021b\u0103, un om la fel ca nomadul analogic, doar c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 c\u0103ru\u021b\u0103 cu coviltir, cal &nbsp;\u0219i c\u00e2ini, cum au &nbsp;\u0103ia care v\u00e2nd var \u0219i iau fier vechi pe la mine prin sat, \u0219i care &nbsp;vin de cine-\u0219tie-unde.<\/p>\n<p>Un fel de \u021bigan cu cortul, dar f\u0103r\u0103 cort, &nbsp;ci cu troller de cabin\u0103, ast\u0103zi rucsac, cu hotspot Wi-Fi din telefonul cu internet, cu laptop \u0219i &nbsp;care-\u0219i face munca pe unde apuc\u0103, dar nu neap\u0103rat numai prin satele anoste \u0219i s\u0103race din Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Din amintiri glorioase<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E ceva ce voiam s\u0103 devin demult, &nbsp;dar am uitat pu\u021bin de asta dup\u0103 ce am &nbsp;turnat primul copil. De fapt am devenit ca un c\u00e2ine de st\u00e2n\u0103 pe-atunci. \u201dEu nuuu plec \u00een delega\u021bie, c\u0103 am nevast\u0103, copil, valori sacre de ap\u0103rat.\u201d Oh well, &nbsp;am rezolvat repede asta, de \u00eendat\u0103 ce am g\u0103sit pe unii care au oferit diurn\u0103 decent\u0103, hotel de 4 stele \u0219i, \u00een general, un stil confortabil de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 a\u0219 fi spus mai de mult c\u0103 mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 pot s\u0103 iau &nbsp;avionul s\u0103 ies la un cico-n Londra cu un vechi prieten \u00eentr-o dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 de duminic\u0103 &nbsp;ar fi sunat&nbsp;<em>flamboyant<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em>p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i \u00een capul meu. Adic\u0103, to\u021bi &nbsp;mai avem pove\u0219ti cu plecat din Bucure\u0219ti la mare, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, la o cafea, sau ceva.<\/p>\n<p>Am eu una cu venit din sat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een Bucure\u0219ti la o cafea, cu motocicleta, &nbsp;av\u00e2nd un motiv serios, anume c\u0103 era \u00eenchis peste tot la ora aia \u00een satul meu. M\u0103 rog, c\u0103 s-a terminat cu \u00eentors pe o ploaie care ne-a f\u0103cut ciuciulete, de\u0219i eu purtam parpalacul lui tata de piele, care aproape m\u0103 tragea jos de pe motor \u0219i care a fost bun c\u00e2nd tipul care conducea ( am zis tipul, gay sau ce? ) a intrat \u00een \u0219an\u021b \u0219i ne-am t\u0103v\u0103lit vreo 20 de metri. M\u0103 rog, fa\u021ba lui tata, pe la 5 diminea\u021ba, sau c\u00e2t o fi fost c\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een curte, iar el pleca la serviciu, nu exprima acela\u0219i entuziasm ca al meu, probabil pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 vedea tras prin n\u0103mol \u0219i iarb\u0103 ca \u0219ni\u021belul prin pesmet, de ziceai c\u0103 m-am sc\u0103ldat \u00een balta porcilor \u0219i mai multe nu.<\/p>\n<p>Dar uite c\u0103 \u00eentre timp distan\u021bele s-au scurtat. Zicea tata r\u00e2z\u00e2nd: \u201dB\u0103, s\u0103 fie al dracu&#8217;, eu am f\u0103cut toata via\u021ba naveta la serviciu cu autobuzul \u0219i cu ma\u0219ina \u0219i-am visat c\u0103 poate voi ( n.m. copiii) s\u0103 n-ave\u021bi parte de navet\u0103, dar tu acu faci naveta cu avionul&#8221;. \u0218i mai &nbsp;zicea c\u0103 \u0103l b\u0103tr\u00e2n era uimit c\u0103 el f\u0103cea naveta la serviciu 30 de km zilnic cu autobuzul \u0219i mai t\u00e2rziu cu ma\u0219ina. &nbsp;Bine, \u0103l b\u0103tr\u00e2n a fost p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een Cehoslovacia pe jos cu \u0103ilal\u021bi trupe\u021bi, dar \u00een rest era obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la t\u00e2rg ( 8km), sau la Topana ( o comun\u0103 \u0219i mai departe) pe jos, cu bicicleta sau cu &nbsp;carul cu boi. Normal c\u0103 i se p\u0103rea ciudat. Pe de alt\u0103 parte \u0103l b\u0103tr\u00e2n era mai aseman\u0103tor cu noi, nepo\u021bii, dec\u00e2t tata. El a &nbsp;mai fost nomad a\u0219a, c\u00e2t l-au \u021binut oasele. &nbsp;B\u0103ga vara 1 lun\u0103, sau dou\u0103, la coas\u0103 la F\u0103g\u0103ra\u0219, sau ce mai era de munc\u0103, pe unde mai era. Nu prea erau servicii. Mai ales pentru d-\u0103\u0219tia ca el, dup\u0103 ce r\u0103m\u0103sese \u0219i surd.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Copiii<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cum am zis, din 2012 am avut un job care a mai presupus \u0219i plec\u0103ri. Nimic regulat. \u00cen func\u021bie de proiect. \u00cen primele 6 luni am frecat-o pe acas\u0103. Iar cuv\u00e2ntul \u201dfrecat-o\u201d descrie foarte bine activitatea la jobul \u0103la din timpul respectiv. Noroc c\u0103 mai aveam unul, c\u0103 muream de plictiseal\u0103. M\u0103 rugam de director s\u0103 \u00eemi dea chestii de f\u0103cut. Dup\u0103 care &nbsp;am f\u0103cut ni\u0219te trasee \u0219i am muncit mai mult de acas\u0103. Plecam a\u0219a 2-3 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de luni p\u00e2n\u0103 joi, sau vineri, pe urma ni\u0219te luni acas\u0103. &nbsp;Era doar un copil, care nu se pl\u00e2ngea prea tare.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut \u0219i copilul cel\u0103lalt eram cam pe navet\u0103. B\u0103gam s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal, &nbsp;\u00een 2014-2015 cred c\u0103 am stat mai multe zile \u00een Germania dec\u00e2t \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Copilul cel mic, era prea mic. N-avea treab\u0103. Se bucura c\u0103 m\u0103 vedea. Copilul cel mare pl\u00e2ngea s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal &nbsp;c\u0103 ar vrea s\u0103 stau mai mult acas\u0103. \u00cel mai g\u0103seam ascuns \u00een troller. Pe vremea aia m\u0103 c\u0103ram cu ditai geanta.<\/p>\n<p>Cam pe la 5 ani. Pe urm\u0103 am \u0219i stat de mi s-a luat mie. Acum, fac chestia asta de 3 luni deja \u0219i plec, dar mai stau \u0219i acas\u0103. Din punctul meu de vedere e un echilibru work-life \u0219i home-gone. Copilul cel mare nu prea are treab\u0103. C\u00e2nd sunt acas\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103re\u0219te \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 scoat\u0103 p\u00e2rleala. &nbsp;Copilul cel mic, mai de mic dec\u00e2t copilul cel mare, de-abia trecut de 3 ani, deja \u0219tie unde plec. P\u00e2n\u0103 acum a fost ok, dar de la o vreme &nbsp;se cam sup\u0103r\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Eh, m\u00e2ine trebuie s\u0103 dau c\u00e2teva poloage de coas\u0103 cu clientul \u0219i i-am spus copilului mic c\u0103 plec la munc\u0103. N-a zis s\u0103 nu plec. Sau s\u0103 stau mai mult acas\u0103. A zis ca \u201d vin \u0219i eu\u201d. \u201dStai, nu pleca \u00eenc\u0103, m\u0103 duc la mami s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eembrace, s\u0103 vin \u0219i eu cu tine\u201d. &nbsp;\u0218i nu se poate. Acum. \u0218i lacrimi. \u0218i &nbsp;nu prea \u00eemi pas\u0103, \u00een general ce las \u00een urm\u0103, c\u0103 eu m\u0103 uit doar \u00eenainte. M\u0103 uit \u00een urm\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eentorc.<\/p>\n<p>Dar copiii-s ai mei \u0219i mi se str\u00e2nge un pic stomacul \u0219i-are s\u0103-mi treac\u0103 \u0219i-are s\u0103 le treac\u0103 \u0219i lor, dar n-a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 le treac\u0103. C\u0103 chestia asta e mai mi\u0219to dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ai r\u0103d\u0103cini.<\/p>\n<p>Copilul cel mare are prieteni, se \u00eengrijora dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 ne mut\u0103m. \u00cemi tot spunea c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fim to\u021bi de acord. Copilul cel mic a stat o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 la \u021bar\u0103 cu ai mei \u0219i-l punea pe tata s\u0103 ia copiii la goana de la poart\u0103, cu b\u00e2ta, c\u0103 fac g\u0103l\u0103gie. S\u0103 mearg\u0103 fiecare la c\u0103\u0219ile lor. E cam cum sunt eu de prietenos. Are familie \u0219i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nomad digital.&nbsp; Nomadul digital este, \u00een esen\u021b\u0103, un om la fel ca nomadul analogic, doar c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 c\u0103ru\u021b\u0103 cu coviltir, cal &nbsp;\u0219i c\u00e2ini, cum au&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8357,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[434,571,82,1594,1],"tags":[913,1785,1186,1784],"class_list":["post-8355","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-despre-munca","category-life-log","category-prin-lume","category-uk","category-uncategorized","tag-copii","tag-dor","tag-familie","tag-nomad-digital"],"views":1986,"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/nomad_by_jameszapata-d6pt6w8.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4Eq23-2aL","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8355","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8355"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8355\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8368,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8355\/revisions\/8368"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/8357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8355"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8355"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalinx.ro\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8355"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}